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ian wolstenholme
State of Consciousness Guidance
for individuals deeply moved
by self-realization

‘by inspiring and guiding you to see for yourself, you can access your deepest being’

ian offers to guide you through your depths
of being and reveal the deep acceptance
required to allow grace to enter you heart.
recognize universal consciousness

You can now receive online consultations

"Through Ian's relational way of being in self-realised space with another person a bridge of connection is built which opens us and settles down our prickly defences so we can engage with all part of our self and beyond.

In my PhD research I found via the research literature and my own experience that there is indeed an undamaged part of the person, whatever we want to call that part, I think Ian might call it the seer, Rudolf Steiner talked about a part that was always free that could not be controlled by others. This is the part we can work with through expression of consciousness through relationship, it is profoundly healing and contains our greatest potential.

Last night after the session, in my half-sleep I felt my self being turned inside out by the energy, very powerful and transformational. I am inhabiting parts of myself that I have not inhabited for a long time . I don't feel alone in the process though and am able to welcome it and not feel afraid, not to say I don't feel fear but I feel a safety alongside it somehow.

It is completely different to a recent session I had on skype with a spiritual teacher who waited, watching from his superior vantage point for me to ask questions and share problems. I found myself trying to dig deep and find some so we had something to talk about! I would have been happy to sit in silence with him but he kept digging and there was this sense he was 'there' wherever 'there' is and I was over here, separate, that he was the gate keeper of the knowledge and of the consciousness, so there was something I had to do- pay home, do breathing techniques, wait, know my place, in order to access the secrets. That apparently my time was coming but I was very much not there yet.

I think Ian's notion of there being a continuum of realisation is far more realistic and truthful and gives an immediate connection as we are all on the continuum, however emerging."

This service is ideal for those who cannot get to meet Ian in his home in Somerset, England.

Skype is free software that is easy and fast to download and uses your internet connection to make free calls to anyone else in the world who also has skype. With a webcam, you can also make video calls and have the benefit of sitting face to face with Ian where ever you are in the world.

You will need to have a skype compatible headset and webcam and have skype installed on your computor.

To book your online consultation follow these 5 steps!
1. Have or Download Skype.
2. Email Ian to discuss appointment availability, stating which time zone you are in.
3. Ian will email you with an appointment time and cost.
4. Purchase your consultation online via paypal.
5. Confirm your appointment, confirming your skype username so Ian can call you at the allotted time.








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My book "Emotional Hostage"

costs £12.99 including postage.

Use the above buy now button to pay.


This little gem of a book is about how we relate to other people in unconscious ways and what we can do to change this. "All the different parts of us respond more to the emotional energy of the person we are relating with rather than to the words that are being spoken. We have the ability to project our emotional energy in a way that can effect other individuals without our needing to speak". Most of us are on automatic pilot, receiving and responding to each others emotional energy without awareness. Transformation starts to arise when we become awaer of when we have acted unconsciously and what our habitual patterns might be. Once we have identified a particular pattern or script, then we can start to recognise when we are in them. " There are two main areas where you can make a difference. One is understanding what is happening within you and the second is that you can be active in the kind of emotional energy that you send out". The book is transcribed from talks that Ian gave on the subject of enlightenment, relationships and inner freedom. Most books about enlightenment tend to celebrate the experience of illumination as an end in itself. This book is more interested in what comes after such experiences, how they can be integrated and the attempt to live a life of integrity and authenticity. Indeed, living life in conscious relationship to others is a possiblity for all of us. The question and answer format of each chapter draws out many practical examples and the pleasuer of this book is that it does not pretend to give all the answers, but rather offers a direction we can choose to go in to create greater self awareness. This is deep work and a thought provoking book that everyone should read". Mike Jones, The Oracle

"I have read your book Ian and it simply confirmed what I already knew - that you are part of this new wave which engages more directly the whole of human reality, the body and the heart as well as the mind and consciousness. What you say engages a person´s reality with compassion for their suffering and honouring the whole of them and yourself. This allows so much more to happen and addresses far more real concerns than a more abstract truth which however real deep and insightful and full of love and light, cannot reach where that person really needs to be touched. A whole new level of possibility and experience is now here. " Anne Geraghty